nah... klo yang sebelumnya kan.. tentnag seorang ce yang tiba2 di sukain sama seorang co yang udah punya istri + beranak 1 ...
trus g mna klo ceritanya... seorang co... yang disukain sama ce udah punya suami + beranak 1...
kira2 bakal beda ga ya.. situasinya...????
pa lagi... klo tu ce emang ngejar2 ga ketulungan... ngasih ini, ngasih itu...
ngabarin ini ngabarin itu
say hai ini say hai itu...
kira2 pa yang bakal di lakuin...
pasti bakal ngerasa ga enak banget...
ok... qt coba telaah masalahnya..
1. dia itu dah punya suami..
dari orang yang udah aku kenal katanya co itu punya prinsip "jangan pernah ngerebut kepunyaan orang lain, p lagi klo lo ga kepingin istri lo nanti yang di rebut orang"
2. dia itu punya anak...
pa lagi klo punya anak pa kata anaknya nanti???
coba deh bayangin seorang ibu yang bisa bilang "ya udah aq emang udah punya anak, tapi ga akan ada yang berubah dari hubungna qt klo km mau ngejalaninnya?"
bo.... g mn perasaan anaknya???
3. kombinasi antara anak + istri...
pasti hubungan km ga akan da masa depannya...
if the problem are u can't refuse everything that she have give to you... it's very simple.....
try to refuse it because you can't like to be an angel everytime.... [it's mean you can't always look a good person]
if she always try to make a relation with keep talking, sms, or something like that.... try to make apart with him.... example: don't try to say hello first.. try not o repaid her sms [if she call you leter, maybe you can reject]....
ok... maybe that is an extrrem way... but if you have to give her explenation not to coming near to you... u didn't have way anymore... but.. it's up to you... you can acept or refuse my sugest
ok mr. ridwan.. i never feel i was grow up to be an adult now...
i never feel like this before i meet you..
thank's...
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Aduh... Nov, Nov, kok jadi njlimet gitu ya.
Hmmmm, in my opinion, just like I posted before, one of them has to decide that he or she just can not go on, no matter how he or she rationalizes the situation. Mau diapain coba?? Memang, cinta itu buta, tapi pliz, one day they have to open their eyes and bite the reality; that when you go spending the rest of your life with that guy...
Tapi kalo ceweknya Novi sih, hmmm cowo2 pasti mikir seribu kali deh untuk nolak. Ha.. ha... ha...
Novi dear,
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go ..
You know you really love someone when you want him to be happy, even if his happiness means that you’re not part of it.
Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn’t love you back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for you’ll never know unless you give it a try.
You’ll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test to you, to help you grow.
Don’t find love: let love finds you. That’s why it’s called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall. You just fall.
You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages size. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering, and growing.
The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on, and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
While falling out of love take some time to heal and then get beckon the horse, don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure.
But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be.
For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitful years, you should give thanks: you know that they were the things that helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity, and that is love.
Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why.
If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not ready to take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, then you’re not ready to fall in love.
There were times in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt.
Yes, that’s why it’s called, again, falling in love. But then again, love is all there is...
Oh reportnya.....
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